Reflection post

Sometimes i ponder whereby upon helping others, am i doing more harm than good to them.
Experienced a few scenario in the past and i really got a bit lost ~_~

Experiencing failure is actually the best way to learn new things.
There were a few times where i wanted to help others but end up doing it all myself due to time constraint.
I taught them the correct way to do it afterwards but i'm not sure if it really works...
Now looking back, i'm wondering if i'm really helping them to learn or rather, showing them that there's always somebody to cover their backside for them
If one day, the "somebody" is not there to help anymore; wouldn't it be even more devastating for them to handle ?

Been through similar cases in the past years;

Scenario 1 
GM1 did wrongly, we taught him/her, GM1 did wrongly again, we redo & taught him/her.
but GM1 doesn't change, leading to the growth of bad feelings.

Scenario 2 
GM1 did wrongly, we taught him/her, GM1 did wrongly again, we redo & taught him/her.
GM 1 said he/she understood but the assignement ended so nobody knows if it really works.

Of course there's scenario with good ending soon woo :D
Okay after typing it out i came out with a conclusion:
I'll do the best i can to help the person, but the ultimate result is depend on the individual. 
If he/she wants to help themselves, efforts will be made.
But still, if the person still didn't manage to change, i'll feel that i contributed a part in their consequences as well ):
overall feeling: STILL GUILTY

Just randomly though of this;
i will never donate to the youngster stating that they are from a children charity.
and the MINIMUM donation is $10 lol
What if the biggest sum of money an individual can donate at that point of time is $3 ?
Sum rejected ?
Why would a charity put a barrier to receiving more donations
It's easier to get 10 people to donate $1 than 1 person to donate $10 isn't it ._.


rejection for the day done. byebye!